The distinguishing Ways Winners Vs Losers Handle Failure.

Everybody fails from time to time. It’s totally normal. What’s not okay is allowing failure to kick you in the bum.

You’re not a failure because you gave up, you’re a failure because you refused to fight back. You’re a failure because you easily throw tantrums when things get difficult, whin like a baby and go and lock yourself in the corner, cementing the fact that you lack guts. But you don’t have to. The choice is yours.

Failure is just a wake-up call to change your perspective or re-strategise a particular technique.

Winners lose. Losers lose. So what’s the difference between the two?

The difference is that people who succeed hate losing. They hate losing so much that the thought of losing motivates them to get on their feet and work their way up. People who don’t succeed allow themselves to lose.

I’m basically trying to say that winners create a strong come back from failure whereas losers on the other hand easily yield to defeat because it is some sort of twisted comfort zone for them.

Losers use losing as a platform to conjure all sorts of excuses just to prevent themselves from having to work hard to attain their goal.

They like the pity that comes with surrounding themselves with all sorts of alibis.

They are consumed by all sorts of F.E.A.R (False Evidence Appearing Real) and they make them their reality.

We all have a choice and if we want a detailed account of what our choices have been, we need to take a good look at ourselves. We are a reflection of the choices that we make.

What makes winners tick is how they handle failure. So this begs the question

How do winners handle failure?

They acknowledge responsibility for their life as such come to the terms that whatever decision and its consequent outcome is entirely their fault and no one else’s.

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